Name: Dynasty Toney, 36; JR, 45; Baltimore, 10; and Divine, 8
Without a home: About 5 years
Date: 21 October 2019
Place: Compass Family Services
What’s your typical day like?
Destiny: “A typical day would be we wakeup in the morning, like 6 in the morning, from the shelter. We get the girls ready for school. We have business for about 3 hour, and then we go relax before I have to go to work, ‘cause I work from 3 to 11.”
JR: Like she said, wake up, get our daughters ready for school. Take them to school as a family and then whatever business we have throughout the day; whether it’s coming to a Compass meeting, or a housing workshop, or looking at an apartment ‘tell about 1 o’clock. Then she’s gets ready for work, she goes to work, I pickup the girls from school and go back to the shelter around 7. But then we have to wake up at 11 and go pickup mom from work, so I have to get the girls up and rustle them to the car, go pickup mom, and then come back to the shelter. If we had a place they are almost at the age that we could leave them and I could run and pickup mom and they’d be OK for 30 minutes. But you couldn’t do that at the shelter.”
Destiny: “You do have to worry about your (shelter) slot being taken although since we’ve been there, which hasn’t been that long, we haven’t run into that problem just yet. But it is something we got to keep in mind because some nights they are full and it’s scary.”
JR: “We’re kind of fortunate because we have two vehicles. One of them we use as storage and that’s pretty much where all our stuff is. We just have a bag of cloths for the girls to get dressed and go to school with, and a bag of dirty laundry.”
Would life be much easier if you had a place?
Destiny: “Yes. In so many ways. I feel like I would be fulfilling my obligation as a mother to my daughters. We would have a place to cook, to feel clean, take a shower, a bath. The girls could have some friends over. We can do things together; play games. From there we would be able to get them more involved in things they want to do. One of them wants to do some kind of dancing or soccer, and things just go on from there. We would start living life normally. I’ll be able to cook for my family. The girls could have a party for their birthday. I would have a place to call home, somewhere to work from so that we can better our lives from there.”
JR: “It’d be easier because I wouldn’t have to worry about where the girls are going to shower everyday. I’m kind of protective like that so I wouldn’t have to worry about the bathrooms situation because they got to get up at night in the shelter to go to the bathroom. I’d like them to have their own doors to close, you know.”